... balancing act

“Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance and order and rhythm and harmony.” - Thomas Merton

.....finding a balance is a hard one for me....I am an all or nothing kinda gal....so balance is a killer....how does a gal find balance in life & still achieve what I want in my life........is it all about prospective????  How do you create the life you want & have balance.....?????