......do guys or gals form closer friendships with others of the same
gender.......hmmmmm......a long time guy friend of mine just came for a
visit...I love this fella...over the years we have formed a wonderful love hate
friendship that is awesome...it’s a friendship based on smack you up aside your
head honesty.....we laugh & bitch at each other like we are a married
couple.....what a fun relationship..we stay in touch & I know he would be
there for me in a hot minute if I needed him.
....so I am thinking about friendship.....I have blogged about gal pal
friends...I love them dearly & am truly blessed to have wonderful strong
independent woman in my life.......this time I am focusing on my guy
friends.......can guys & gals really be friends.....I mean REAL
friends...girlfriend kinda friends...only with wing wangs & facial
hair..
...history shows us that between the sexes was basically non
existent....men & women occupied different spheres...we were considered the
inferior sex....LOL...boy did they have that wrong! Times sure have
changed.....now it is just a thing for a guy & a gal to have a platonic
friendship...not to be confused with friends w/ benefits........my my that a
whole different ...and interesting blog LOL
...friendships with the opposite sex have been important to me as far back
as I can remember.....I hardly think I am the only gal out there who has
awesome guy pals...friendship isn’t courtship...there’s no beginning
..middle...or end....I think our culture has problems accepting any friendship
that isn’t based on sex or blood...we all understand and accept romantics
relationships...and we all have the family thing...but for some reason it is
hard for society to accept a man & a woman being “just “ friends...why is
that? Why do we as a society have to sexualize platonic relationships???
...now I will admit I have had guy pals in my life who I wouldn’t have minded
taking them for a spin...wink wink...but a quickie is not worth ending ...real
friendship.
...I have been very blessed to have wonderful, respectful genuine guy pals
who I consider good good friends..they have all played a significant role in my
life......they are true friends.......they would stand by me no matter
what....at times they know me better than I know myself.....one thing I know for
sure...when you have an amazing friendship with someone (male or female) who you
would consider family...stick with that person through thick &
thin....sometimes it is not easy either way.....I believe that people come into
our lives for a reason....sometimes they exit after we have learned what we or
they were suppose to learn....sometimes the friendship gets stronger & grows
into a lifetime........I have AWESOME guy friends!
No comments:
Post a Comment