…not
everyone would agree…but I do consider myself low maintenance…..yes I know I can
be demanding & controlling….in & outta the bedroom..hehe…but for the
most part as I have matured…that’s a nice way to say I am mellowing out a bit as
I get older….I..... like so many women don’t consider myself beautiful…
....I have
struggled a lifetime looking in the mirror while I hurl mental insults at my
reflection…. my love candles….my thin lips…saggy boobies..wrinkles…etc..etc..etc….so
many women of all ages complain about their appearance…..I have to say as the
years go by I have a new found appreciation for myself….I think I have finally
come to the realization that what is truly important is not how I “think” I
look. But how I feel …about my appearance as well as my inner
self…..
..I
started wearing make up in high school….I don’t really remember wearing a lot
…but my trusty concealer could mask any zit….eye liner..mascara & some eye shadow would take my eyes from squinty to beautiful in like 20 minutes or
less…..I started wearing lip color years later….as a young lady I realized I had
very thin lips like my mom…..so I would use lip liner & all of a sudden I
have lips! My makeup collection grew as my self-esteem shrank…..in my mind I
thought makeup helped….
…the
years since I started my long time love affair with make-up my routine has
evolved…..the days of the orange make-up line on my neck are gone…..my thin
eyebrows that I used to fill in w/ a pencil have bushed up a bit over the
years…..now in my 50’s it is far more important to use potions & creams that
hydrate my shin so I have the youthful dewy glow…lol
….I
have never been one of those gals who wouldn’t dare to be seen w/o her face on…I
know lots of chicks who can’t be seen anywhere w/o their “face on”…up until a
couple of years ago my make-up routine was pretty basic…unless of course I was
going out on the town & had to vamp it up… then when I turned 50…I shaved my
head & somehow my make up just didn’t look right w/ a bald head…..so I
stopped wearing it….I would occasionally wear some mascara…but for the most
part the last couple of years it just been moisturizer & lip
stuff….
…ya
know studies have found that you can look at someone’s face for like 150
milliseconds & decide their beauty…I always thought that guys liked chicks
w/o make up….they dig chicks who were naturally beautiful……I think most guys
would so agree…..but yet it seems that fellas are more attracted to chicks with
makeup….is this why chicks feel overly stressed about their appearance..or maybe
even think they have to wear makeup to be accepted into society’s idea of
beauty…
....
seems like life is a beauty competition…chicks are so nasty regarding other gals
appearance….our culture seems to be a “makeover” society…..we feel pressure to
improve ourselves in one way or another ….I am all about improving myself….but
because I wanna…not because we gals feel we have no choice in order to fit
in…that’s a crock of shit…
….I am
not against makeup..I love all that girly stuff…..I am just against the idea
that you “have” to change your face to feel beautiful…lots of celebrities have
posted photos of themselves w/o any make up…how cool is that….so I wonder….as we
age…does going bare faced make us feel more or less confident…..or
authentic…..at what point do we are women say enough is enough…no longer will we buy into such rigorous standards & expectations of our
appearance….the importance of feeling confident in a crazy ass world were gals
are bombarded w/ images on Tv..magazines..etc….telling us how
young..thin..beautiful is better than anything else……what about embracing
your age in a positive manner if it makes ya happy.
...I’m
not sure if its because I don’t really wear make up or if it’s a shift of
consciousness...or if as I get older I realize my value as a person..but the
last couple of years I have learned....you look the way you look...you either
accept...embrace & celebrate your beauty....or layer on the war paint in
hopes you see the look you seek.......make up can defiantly function as a confidence boost....bottom line..its
not about covering up our imperfections....its about enhancing our natural
beauty.
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