Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Katy Perry - Wide Awake

...sure hope everyone had a wonderfully romantic weekend...dinner...flowers...candy.....wine.....sex....however you celebrated the most romantic weekend of the year......at least that's what Hallmark says..lol  

...I had a crazy bust weekend......every once in awhile you have one of the weekends that ya have something Friday..Saturday & Sunday.......I needed to go to work on Monday to get some rest....lol.....

...Friday I worked late as the snow fell....and of course being V Day the restaurants where packed....finally found a place for dinner - yippee...I was starved!!!!   Not exactly the most romantic evening having dinner with two teenage girls & my hubby...but it sure was fun.....to be that young again - NOT!  lol

...Saturday morning.....waxed...yanked & tweezed.....is there anything better.....or more painful?  lol  A quick brunch with my BESEST girl then off to the nail salon....followed by some shopping...home long enough to shower & throw something semi fashionable on & out the door to meet some friends for dinner...

...3 or 4 Long Island Ice Teas....a have eaten filet......a super hot & yes...young waiter...a few laughs & alot of inappropriate chitter chatter & we were on our way to play pool....which by the way I am not even remotely  better when I am drinking.....but it is always fun to end over the table..lol

....next stop a local club to socialize...just never know who you are gonna run into....after a few hours of fun.....I found my self where else but the Waffle House!  Thats the place to be !

.....Family pictures on Sundays....soo glad there was no hangover to deal with.....after pictures we headed to TX Road House for a yummy dinner & I ended my crazy busy weekend by going to bed by 8pm......wow!

Friday, February 14, 2014

Happy V Day!


...speak your truth



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Cher - I Hope You Find It [OFFICIAL LYRIC VIDEO]

...i believe











....me


Romance is in the air......Valentines Day 2014

...wow!  February 14th already....damn time just flies the older ya get..lol.   Today is a day of romance.....so many people will be sporting red today..passing our candy, cards & flowers..proclaiming their love/like for one & other.......remember V Day when you were in grade school.....making those fancy V Day boxes ^ passing out those little V Day cards to everyone in the class......what fond memories......wonder if they still do that kinda stuff....lol

.....I remember growing up my dad would buy my mom a fancy heart shaped box of candy...you know that kind ya never know what flavor it is till ya bite into it.....in those days if I didn't like it I would put it back in the box......pretty sure that pissed my mom off..lol...over the years I have rec'd a few fancy heart shaped boxes of candy....some red roses...once I rec'd a big white teddy bear....wonder what ever happened to that.....hmmm

....are the VDay gifts really that important?  Do we really need one day a year to express our love for one another?  Shouldn't we be doing that everyday?  Well..it is what it is...if we didn't buy candy...cards....flowers....etc....think of all the folks that would be out of work.....so actually VDay is helping the economy....lol

....my Vday plans.....work of course.....dinner date with some friends...... a late night show & a little naughty roll in the hay to top the night off.....HAPPY V DAY!!!!


Thursday, February 13, 2014


Toni Braxton - Let It Flow


..seduction


…seduction is defined as an act of temptation & enticement…mostly sexual in nature…everyone loves to be seduced…seems like women & men have utilized seductive clothing to enhance physical attractiveness…I for one am not above putting my big old boobies on display for the attention of the opposite sex..or even the same sex…what the hell….attention is attention…right?!

 



…tomorrow is Valentine’s Day……romance at its best…do ya  think more people are gonna get laid tomorrow night and any regular Friday night?  How many people will come home tomorrow night to a seductive evening of fresh flowers….delicious foods…soft music…and of course the most essential item in their seduction repertoire…a sexy little outfit….something that begs to be taken off..  or ripped off if you are into the rough stuff…lol….

 

…..seductive dressing doesn’t have to be a skimpy lingerie with your boobies spilling out or a zipper that is ready to burst…although I kinda like the having the girls out for all to see..lol    I personally think there is nothing sexier on a chick that a cute pair of panties & a man’s white button down shirt…..just sayin

I Wanna Be Your Baby (Toni Braxton & Babyface) (+playlist)


...red


.......vocab words worth knowing......for the naughty at heart


…who knew there were so many new sexual phrases out in the cyber world….I found this on line – cracks me up……

~unknown website 

 

1. Two Pump Chump: when the deed is over after a couple of thrusts. What a treat, huh?

2. Moses: a dude who is a-ok with performing cunnilingus while his partner is menstruating.

3. Slick Leggings: the name does not refer to the latest style being offered for half price at Macy’s, but rather the act of lubricating your legs so that your man can experience the Slip ‘n’ Slide action!

4. Cold Fish: a sex partner who is anything but responsive during copulation.

5. Wank Tank: the marital or lovers’ bed. Try using that one next time you are getting the urge – “Sweetie, let’s go have a romp in the wank tank!”

6. Pink Glove: if the female isn’t reasonably moist downstairs, the guy’s member may become stuck for a moment or two.

7. Australian Sex: one partner starts at the mouth and neck of their partner, and works his/her way down along the spine to the ‘Australian’ part (southern region) for anal intercourse or anilingus.

8. Snowballing: when a woman performs oral sex on a man, he ejaculates, and she transfers the sperm into his mouth via kissing. No comment.

9. The Corkscrew: the act of crossing your middle finger over your index, and twisting your wrist back and forth inside of your partner. In other words, an advanced form of fingering!

10. Hot Karl: another oral sex term, meaning when a woman goes down on her beau following intercourse.

..twister...naked


....flirting


Janet - Any Time, Any Place


....tingles ?


…how funny is it that it so hard for humans to describe their ideal romantic partner…but yet we..or I should say our bodies know it on sight…..yep….your body produces physical signs that grab your attention….and the attention of your crush….yeppers…the human body is a finely tunes attraction seeking machine…takes a second to intuitively decide if someone is hot or not….other words known as lovesick…or lust-sick symptoms…

 


…your heart will flutter….pulse races….palms sweat…pupils dilate…your body tingle…you wet your panties….you tite your lip…..the brain is responsible for these & other physiological responses…..all these years I thought it was cupid…..lol….I guess it’s called the look of love..or lust….or both…hehe….without knowing it humans have subtle gestures  that reveal their desires…sometimes we just completely miss them……how many times do you wish that comedian would pop with and say…”here’s your sign” ….

 
…our bodies are literally a pool of energy….our inner romantic & sexual feeling emit high frequency vibrations outside….deliberate intense eye contact  is a true tell sign….either you are or the other person wants to jump your bones….or even the opposite….if neither of you will actually look at each other..like avoiding eye contact all together shows you are afraid of what will be seen behind those loving lustful eyes…


 


…flirt  flirt flirt…it is an art form….double whammy would be dropping sexual innuendos while flirting….playful touching……gentle pat on the shoulder or arm….all ways to let the other person know you dig them…problem is not everyone catches the hint…..so I say…when you are in the middle of getting your flirt on…..and someone says…”are you flirting with me?”…you say not just yes…but HELL YES!

........dance


Sara Evans - I Could Not Ask For More


...romance..RIP


…ok…I will admit it…..yes  yes yes…like many chicks I am swept of my feet by a romantic guy…..I dig romance…and with the big V day tomorrow I can’t help but think romantic thoughts…..lol….but I have to wonder if female empowerment is killing romance…..

 …..as chicks match…or overtake men in education & jobs….traditional gender roles are kinda flip flopping…..seems like educated self-sufficient gals have trouble finding a fella who rocked his  S.A.T. & is well read in Bridget Jones novels…..seems to be three groups of gals out there…..

 …one….alpha chicks who end up with alpha fellas but decide to put their career on the back burner to do the wife/baby thing….

 …two…. Chicks that out earn their fella…they do their best to keep the appearance of traditional gender roles……at least to the outside world….

 

…three…. guy pleasing …..allow the fella to take care of you…..kinda gal…..

 


…my hubby makes every effort to hold the door…almost always drives….helps me with my coat…etc….some may write these off as just being a gentleman. Or maybe call it being romantic..I consider it both..

 


…what is it that we want when it comes to romance…..some chicks may like red roses & wine…..expensive dinner…..or  Godiva candy…..some enjoy a little love note…..or expensive jewelry…others like to hold hands…sit by a fire..go for a walk…..everyone has their own idea of romance…..

 
…if romance is dead…what’s next….God forbid we have sex without emotion…lol

...bad ass


Tamar Braxton - All The Way Home (+playlist)


…danger danger……she’s 50!


 

….after years of playing second fiddle…prioritizing hubby…kids…..etc….I for one want more out of life in my 50’s……the urge to find personal fulfilment is overwhelming…..I had heard about the hot flashes & depression…. I wasn’t expected the new found appetite for life I am experiencing…

 


…your 50’s are supposed to be a time of calm & domesticity….right?  Time to take a huge sigh of relief. The hard work of raising a family  is somewhat behind ya…..the challenging years of teething & temper tantrums are a memory….it’s time to enjoy some quality me time….and hubby time..at last…….the old cliché about settling down may be off the mark….far from settling down….50 represents danger…danger Will Rogers…lol….kids…..marriage…life as it is……may n longer seems to hold the appeal they once did…..throw in a hardy cocktail of hormones…once all that kicks in a gal gets to feeling a bit restless….

 


….it’s funny how us gals change when we turn the big 5 0……for me it was/is a time to tape in to all that I am and or all that I want to be….I am not around to please anyone ….what a relief…no more people pleaser here folks! I can be the wife…the mother…the friend…the ME I wanna be.  I think 50 is such a critical age for gals…..full of conflicting feelings & emotions….many of us have spent our lives raising kids ....being a good wife….as well as working…now ya feel the urge to rediscover your youthful passions…..to include sexuality…just sayin

…I read that chicks undergo a seismic hormonal change between 45 & 55…lower levels of estrogen & increased testosterone…which means less nurturing & more bitching…..lol….amazingly liberating…..the dilemma ……knowing how to respond to this new cluster-fuck of feelings/emotions……is it better to make radical changes or look for less disruptive solutions…..I guess that’s for each of us to decide…

Monday, February 3, 2014

Personality Test....I stole this from a FB post........I picked #9

WHAT DOOR WOULD YOU WALK THROUGH? 
~ PERSONALITY TEST ~


Pick the door that looks the most appealing to you. This might reveal a few things about your personality. Let us know what door you picked and if the answer was accurate for you. Feel free to SHARE!

1 - You are a fun individual that likes to keep things light and airy. You are all about nurturing others and appreciating the simple luxuries in life; such as your fine dishware, favorite candle or eating artisan bread from the local bakery. You most likely have a love for traveling and other cultures. You truly want the best for everyone and love creating a welcoming atmosphere. It is important to remember that if you ever feel that you need help or support, it is OK to just ask someone.

2- You are clean and simple and don’t like any frills. You might strive to have a clean and perfect existence; but is it totally worth it? Don’t you feel that there is something missing? You are all about your personal achievements and you take pride in your work or career. Although you might be on track with your career path or have a few diplomas/ certificates on your wall, you need to spend more time on developing yourself as a person. Remember... the real you. Life is all about creating balance, surrounding yourself with color and creating memorable adventures. If you are finding that you have been taking the safe road lately, try veering off the beaten path. You might surprise yourself!

3 – It is obvious you are a quirky individual and very interesting to the people that you let into your life. You are good at many things... a “Jack or Jill of all trades”. You are an artistic individual that expresses yourself in many ways. You can make something out of anything and are not a stranger to your local thrift shop. You can basically make vintage “new” again. It is easy to get stuck inside the house or inside your urban bubble; but remember that you have to get out and connect with nature. It is time to come down out of the clouds and get grounded!

4 – You are an old soul that can be slightly dramatic. You are a very artistic person that loves to express yourself through writing, music, art or some kind of expression. You are a dichotomy; for you can be very open and friendly, yet closed and deeply private. You often have your guard up, keeping your thoughts and troubles to yourself. Although you might think that nobody will truly understand you, if you allow yourself to open up and share your feelings, you will feel so much better. Deep down you are not aright with any imperfections and you feel the need to come across as “the rock” in any group situation. Know that people are willing to share their feelings with you and want you to share your feelings with them.

5 – It is very important for you to fit in and feel as though you are a major contributor in every situation. You always have things going on, for being productive is what makes you feel at ease. Your busy-ness can sometimes cause the need for you to become more aware of what is really going on around you. What does your body want you to be doing? It is alright to relax on a Monday and simply just BE. Feel free to take some time to figure out what you really love to do. Possibly try some new hobbies or activities that are out of your normal routine. Explore being you, even if that means relaxing. Life is not just about how many muffins you can make in a single batch or how many fit-it jobs you can do in one day.

6 – You are a confident person with an eye for detail. You can come across as someone who is all together and exciting; yet you are just YOU on the inside. You care about your appearance and how the world sees you, yet the inside your home or car is probably a total mess! Your personality can be self destructive, for you could turn against yourself when the going gets tough. The life of a person who is a living a total contradiction... has got to be a difficult one. Remember to breathe and just relax. Life is not just about pleasing others. Truth is, the world isn’t always watching... Take time to reflect on who you truly want to be? What is it that you truly want to do?

7 – You are a simple minimalist that always has important things to do. You care for others and find your time anything but your own. You surround yourself with meaningful things, for you are very sentimental. Family and friends are very important to you and you would do anything for them. Not putting yourself first has made your life a safe and complacent one. What is it that can enrich your life today? What will make your life more colorful and enjoyable? Even though life gives you labels such as a mother, father, wife, husband, teacher, manager, etc; remember that your life is still YOUR life. Take a moment to decide what you want your future to look like. It is perfectly acceptable to want wonderful things to happen to you. Carpe Diem.

8 – Your fun and playful personality keeps you young and youthful. Although you are easy going, you tend to have lower self-confidence and anxiety about specific things in your life. You are usually unorganized; yet don’t even know where to start to help yourself to fix the messy problem. You are a proud individual but you need to learn to love yourself more. You need to take the time to find yourself through self expression. How are you currently expressing yourself to the world? Remember that there are people around you that can help you, but you need to let them know you are willing to receive help. Life is easier when you let people in.

9 – You are a quirky person that is always making things work. You are an amazing problem solver that prides yourself on your thrifty living. You like to live an uncomplicated life and usually get by with the basics. Why would you need anything else? You are very easy to please and love doing things for others. Whether it be fixing your neighbors toilet, building a bird house for your mother out of reclaimed wood or helping your friend find a great living room set at the thrift shop; you are always there to lend a hand. Remember that life is special. It is OK to treat yourself to amazing things. You are special too!

10 – You are one who truly appreciates stability and wholeness. You are a reliable person that takes pride in their love of quality and detail. Some might say “cookie cutter”, but you say dependable! You always know what you are getting because you have checked the consumer reports. You love safety and security in all parts of your life. You prefer not to have anything frivolous or extra, if you can’t see the use for it. Chances are you have some sort of creative side that you have curbed in some way. You might love scrap-booking, music or art; yet would never try to make it your career. You feel your problems are your own and nobody needs to be burdened with them. Just keep in mind that exposing your true self to the world (or your neighbors) is not a crime. We are all human.

Sunday, February 2, 2014

Miley Cyrus - Adore You

MACKLEMORE & RYAN LEWIS - SAME LOVE feat. MARY LAMBERT (OFFICIAL VIDEO)

.....happy February

...for some reason I woke up this morning full of energy......did some laundry.......feeling pretty good.....haven't really felt this energized in awhile....my voice is better ....I am feeling better - last week was a bad bad week...bronchitis kicked my ass.....I am back in the saddle.....I am working on a few blogs...this being the month of love & romance.....I think I nerd to blog about just that.....romantic love.....hehe...naughty love....with a dash of  sex.......uh I mean... raunchy...naughty...nasty kinda  sex....Oh HELL yes!